Ok, so yesterday afternoon I left a message with her front office asking her to call me. I didn't expect a call back right away because I knew she was in surgery all day. We'll see if we can fix this. I've got almost 4 months invested in this so far, so it would be better for everybody if we can get back to a warm fuzzy place.
If I don't get a call back, then I'll have to fire her without giving her a chance. That would really, really suck, since I do like her. She just needs to restore my confidence, which shouldn't be difficult. I'm pretty reasonable, except for the occasional childish temper tantrum.