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Old 10-09-2005, 07:20 PM   #1
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A couple of things that have happened to me in the last couple of days have made me stop and think what makes a good friend?

This will be kind of a sappy post but I felt it important for me to sit down and type it.

What is a GOOD friend ? I ran this question through my noggin over the last 72 hours. Is it someone that you can trust with your life? Is it someone who you can depend on when things get tough ? Is it that person that comes through when all others have failed you? Probably all of the above.

Heres the story....... My wife and I are doing a fairly extensive kitchen and family room remodel. To get the most out of our hard earned dollars I made a decision to be the general contractor and sub some of the work out. One of the jobs that needed to be subbed was the drywall portion. I put a call out on ifish looking for sheet rockers and had a few responses, some contacts and some advice. One fellow ifisher that I had met a couple of years back gave me a call and turned me on to a guy whO we thought would be a perfect match.

Well after getting into the project and lining everything out so the contractors would be coming in for their portion of the remodel we got to the sheet rocker who was recommended and the guy flaked out. Well it's easy to say that we can just go hire another one, but the electrician is going to be here in four days, the cabinets installed in six and the hardwood floors in ten. One let down will set things back and the domino effect will take place. Besides all the other sheet rockers are working 30 to 45 days out.

Heres where the story matches it's title. I called the fellow ifisher who had originally recommended the dry waller to see if he could help get this guy off the dime in a moment of crisis. Well he did. He and his oldest son showed up at my house mid week to help me hang drywall and proceeded to show up the following night and spent the entire day Saturday helping me out of a jam. This wasn't expected but appreciated.

At this point let me go back a couple of years and explain how we met. It was as simple as a response to an open seat. I had posted an open seat to someone who had never landed a springer. I wanted to get someone into a fish. I got a response, a trip was set up and a new springer veteran was on the water the following weekend. I enjoyed myself so much that day with a new found fishing partner that we set up the task of catching a "first ever" Tillamook Bay Chinook a few months later. Keep in mind that it was the second week of November and we were the only boat on the bay but a Tillamook Bay novice was now hooked and had landed the first of many fish yet to come. With a couple fishing trips together and an occasional correspondence through ifish we managed to keep in touch over the past year. This guy proved to be someone who I could contact if I had a question in regard to a plethra of questions. They ranged from high school wrestling to raising beef.

Fast forward to this week and very unexpectantly my friend and his son come to the rescue and we knocked out the dry wall project in a couple of days. Not only was this a sacrifice on his time during his off work hours but a sacrifice on his body. If he was only half as sore as I was Sunday morning from hanging rock all day Saturday, he needed some back medication, a shot of Old Number 7, and a massage.

After this long winded post you ask who this ifisher is who I consider a very GOOD FRIEND ?

Thank you Woody .

Your generosity and willingness to help me out in a jam will never be forgotten. If I can ever repay the favor please don't hesitate to ask.


Pearl.......P.S. FTT
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Old 10-09-2005, 07:56 PM   #2
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Awesome Post!!!

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Old 10-09-2005, 08:25 PM   #3
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Very nice

Hey Pearl, send over Woody and his kid to my place when your done with'em. I have some landscaping projects that I could use some help with!

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Old 10-11-2005, 07:06 PM   #4
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Aw, shucks. Now ya got me all embarrassed.

I was just helping a buddy out of a bind.
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Old 10-11-2005, 08:46 PM   #5
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Woody is a great guy!!
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Old 10-13-2005, 08:37 AM   #6
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I learned a lesson here, too.

I used to work with this "friend" I recommended to pearl. He seemed like a stand-up guy. He was a taper by trade and he ran the drywall crews at the manufactured home plant where we worked. He needed the money and I thought I was doing them both a favor by playing matchmaker.

The problem arose when the guy failed to communicate with pearl. He said he would be there at a certain time and then didn't show, no call...nothing. Then he would come up with some excuse why he didn't make it, promise to come the next day, and then pull the same crap again. By the time pearl had had enough, the guy was 2 for 7.

We all get busy. I know he is working tons of hours. That's why I quit. Life happens, I understand. But, sometimes you have to stand up and be a man and take your beating if you have it coming. Two or three weeks ago, when he knew he wouldn't be able to make his commitment, he should have communicated with pearl and he could have found somebody else.

Sorry for the rant. I ended up not only hanging the rock, but finishing it, too. I'm tired and my shoulders are killing me.......All because of this bozo I thought was my friend.

I'm never going to recommend ANYONE ever again.
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Old 10-13-2005, 08:49 AM   #7
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Ifish has been nothing but good to me.

GBS, BTS, Riverkeeper, Flatfish, Hogmaster, Reeldick, Fishing is Life, Crayfin, Bait Boy, Lil Northfork... I could easily go on.

I could call anyone of these guys (they may not answer) and get a hand if needed. It means a lot!

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Old 10-13-2005, 09:02 AM   #8
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Absolutely redbull. I've made more close friend here on ifish than at any other place in my life..... work, school...anywhere.

Pearl, you did what you do best for me......teach me how to catch fish. I did what I knew how to do for you.........build stuff. What go's around, come's around, bro.

Like we say on the Salty Dog board.......leave no dog behind.
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Old 10-13-2005, 09:09 AM   #9
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no doubt ifish is full of first class guys. I also have met tons of great people I now call friends from here.

come one steve you should have P/m'ed me and I could have come out and helped ya some. I too have hung my share of dry wall it sucks bad, so the more guys the better

great to see people helping each other out
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Old 10-13-2005, 09:10 AM   #10
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Like we say on the Salty Dog board.......leave no dog behind
Don't you mean...."Leave no drywall screw behind?" Found another one I missed last night when sanding this morning

Thanks again Woody!
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Old 10-13-2005, 09:12 AM   #11
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Don't you REALLY mean 'Leave no screwball behind the drywall?'
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Old 10-13-2005, 12:01 PM   #12
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A friend will help you move.
A true friend will help you move the body!

It's good to have friends.
It's better to have friends with boats!
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Old 10-13-2005, 12:16 PM   #13
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Great post!
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Old 10-13-2005, 02:26 PM   #14
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Great post.
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