People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime. When you know which one it is, you will know what to do for that person. when someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally or spritually. They may seem like a Godsend and they are. They are there for the reason you need them to be. Then, without any wrongdoing on your part or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.
Sometimes they die.
Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done. The prayer you sent up has been answered and now it is time to move on.
Some people come into your life for a SEASON,
because your turn has come to share, grow or learn. They bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it, it is real. But only for a season.
LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons, things you must build'upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life. It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant, Thank you for being part of my life,
whether you were a reason, a season, or a lifetime.
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We have been waiting on some pretty important blood tests to come back on my wife, we just had our 14th wedding anniversary on 7/21/10. We have been together 20yrs though. Today we got a call from the Dr. and we were told he would not discuss on the phone what he found, just that the tests were very abnormal, and made us an appointment for tomorrow @ 3pm to discuss options or possible medications, They were looking for a couple life threatening auto immune disorders. They have already diagnosed her with sjogrens disease, raynouds disease, G.E.R.D. and an has yet to be diagnosed with some sort of auto immune connective tissue disease. All they have been doing is treating the symptoms which mostly is pain. They have her up to 40mg oxycontin 2X's a day and 2 15 mg oxycodone up to 4 times a day. We just had to give up our insurance on her as I am on ss disability. and of the $1600.00 we get $650.00 goes for her insurance, the rest goes to my medicare insurance, car insurance, and groceries. They just took my food stamps down from $367 to $16.00 as now that I have an "income" of $1,600.00 a month, that put us over some stupid limit. I really don't get it. I thought getting the disability would help us out, but now we are in a worse position then we were. Any type of health care reform will probably come too late for us to be able to keep our house. God forbid.....
what kind of friend are you???
Lou
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