Bigspinner - A good website is
www.rodbuilding.org It is a discussion board kind of like ifish, but with rod building questions being answered. A good place to post a question if you get in a bind. A nice archive of questions you can go back and read and probably find an answer to your particular question.
You will see links to several of the dealers and suppliers on the webpage. If you go to mudhole.com you will be able to read a nice description of how to build a rod. It is a decent description for being able to read it for free.
I would recommend the rod building book by Tom Kirkman if you wanted more to read. He is the editor of rodbuiding magazine.
If you have any questions feel free to shoot me an email. I really enjoy building my own rods.