Rip,
Be very careful this weekend crossing the bar. There are some huge ebb tides early in the morning both days, especially on Saturday. Roughly 10-11 ft. of water moving out of the bay those days. That's a bad thing. Considering those are the same tidal conditions the Taki Tooo went down on. The only difference is they went out in 12-15ft. seas and the forecast this weekend is for 7-8.
You can always go take a look and turn around but to be safe I wouldn't make the trip across the bar till at least 8am+. The afternoon tides are pretty much a non-issue.
Just use your head. Have fun!