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Ryan Pultz
03-11-2005, 11:29 PM
Hey everyone so it has been a wile since I have asked for you all to pray but this time my wife and I are at whit’s end. About a month ago my son Daniel was diagnosed with ADHD and well this week we found out he has Asperger's Syndrome it is a form of Autism This is something that we have been doing the testing for the last three weeks or so and well I was praying that they would say no he just needs to adjust a little more to school but the autism specialist and the school physiologist have said he does fall under ASD (Autism spectrum disorder) it explains the problems he is having relating to classmates and getting into trouble even thought he is on ADHD medication. Twice this week my wife has had to pick him up at school because he hit someone, or as in today stuck a girl with a plastic fork all because she would not quite down when the teacher said to. He can not put words together right and he gets frustrated and acts out. It is not his fault and he can not control himself. He knows he has done wrong and says he is sorry but then turns around and dose it again. It has got my wife and I stressed out on what to do. The wife is going to a meeting for parents of autistic kids on Monday and we have a woman in our church who’s son has Asperger's and the wife has been talking to her.

Now for what I do best when I am stressing about something I turn to my ifish Family. I just want you all to pray for Daniel and us as we learn to deal with this and learn to cope with his disorder. This little boy is my life and I love him more then life it self and I will do anything I can to make his life better. Thank you all for your prayers God Bless. rp

fishnwHim
03-11-2005, 11:42 PM
It is so hard when our kidos are hurting. I'll be praying for Jesus to put His arms around you and your family. :angel: :angel:

AnglersRental
03-12-2005, 12:29 AM
Ryan - As I face the biggest challenges in my life it helps me to remember that Ecclesiastes tells us that to every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven. Even though Gods purpose is often hard to see, there is a reason you were chosen for this. The love and dedication you have for your child is very obvious from your post, and that love and dedication is what your child needs most. With that love and your faith, good things can come of this. And yes I will pray. Thanks for setting a example we all can follow.

Brad

Ryan Pultz
03-12-2005, 03:07 AM
Thank you both for your prayers. God Bless rp

HntnFsh
03-12-2005, 07:32 AM
Prayers will be said for you and your family.

hookumhi
03-12-2005, 08:51 AM
many thoughts and prayers are with you and family .

Smily
03-12-2005, 09:14 AM
Hi Ryan,
Prayer's sent. We'll never understand why God puts these situations in our lifes. But He did say he will never give you more than we can handle. I have missed Daniel in Awana's the last few weeks. Hope to see him there soon again.

salmonbird
03-12-2005, 09:51 AM
I pray that God will guide you in all aspects of this to the right people who can help and also that Daniel will grow up to be a wonderful and productive and happy individual.

slinkey
03-12-2005, 03:15 PM
Hi Ryan,

I'm glad that I saw your post!

PM sent!!

Ryan Pultz
03-12-2005, 04:14 PM
Thank you slinkey for the information I will be praying for your son. And thank you everyone else for all your prayers.

Smiley I hope to have Daniel back at awanas this week he misses it to. God Bless rp

jokester
03-12-2005, 04:23 PM
RP,

You know i'll be praying for your son!! I'll put you guys on our prayer list at church tonight.

It's gotta be hard for you all to deal with something like this, but when you find yourself asking "WHY?" just remember that God has a plan and a purpose for Daniel's life, and it will all come out for HIS glory in the end!! :applause: Anything you need, don't hesitate to call me brother!! :angel: You got my number :smile:

-jokester

letsfish
03-12-2005, 05:33 PM
Ryan,
It is good they have identified the syndrome- at least they can more evectively address it. I will be praying for you and your wife that you may have patience, wisdom, and love. And that all of Daniel's teacher's will know how to effectively care for him.

DAB
03-12-2005, 06:04 PM
Ryan And Joyce.
I know you know how I feel about my Grandson Daniel and mom feels the same way. WE have been sheding tears for Daniel when we pray for him. Mom and I are right along side of you and Joyce.
I would also thank you all that are praying for Ryan's son and my Grandson Daniel. It tears me up just to think about Daniels problem. His Grandmother and I love Daniel so much.
Thanks agian
DAB

Fish-n-Fever
03-12-2005, 11:00 PM
He knows he has done wrong and says he is sorry but then turns around and dose it again.



I will also pray for your son. I have ADHD as well as a couple other illnesses(OCD/PTSS), physical as well as mental.
I am 51 yrs old and at times can not control the emotions that range from deep depression to rage. I know how difficult it is to live with these problems as well as how it feels love someone that has these problems and the feeling of helplessness that goes with it. Always remember the person suffering from this condition is not in control of some of the things they do and if they hurt you or others it is because of the illness and not because they make a choice to do so.
Patience is tried at times but love and understanding is what will help you and your's through this.

Ron

Fred N
03-13-2005, 09:03 PM
I'm praying for patience your son will need to deal with his conditions as well as God's strength to help him overcome these problems. I pray for everyone's strength and understanding to work through all the issues your son encounters. :angel: There is no fault to be placed on your son or anyone and staying positive and having patience are some of the keys of getting through the situations that will continue to come up. I wish all of you the best, Fred

Jennie@ifish
03-14-2005, 07:50 PM
In deep prayer, Ryan!

Jen

Kentucky Hog Hunter
03-14-2005, 08:57 PM
Praying for you bud :angel1:

happybrew
03-14-2005, 10:20 PM
Praying for you. We have a family in our homeschool group who have two autistic sons. Just remember it is a trial for you, but after a while it can help you in your spiritual growth, and so you should be thankful for it. Not the for the Aspergers, but the opportunity. That is scriptural. Prayer will help you immensely. Pray always. Show love to your son. He can lead a good life, even with the Asperger's, so don't despair. Despair is something that comes from the Enemy, so always keep hope in your heart.

happybrew

FM2
03-15-2005, 01:58 AM
Hey Ryan, I'll put in in our next prayer bulletin. God speed to you and your family bro!

Blessing,
Keith

Chromaflage
03-15-2005, 08:35 PM
Ryan, I too will keep you and your family n my prayers. May God bless you and your wife with patience and guidance.

Kerry

Ryan Pultz
03-15-2005, 11:49 PM
Hey keith good to see you back. And to everyone thank you for the prayers We sure can use them. God bless all of you. rp

CATCH AND EAT
03-16-2005, 09:43 AM
Haven't read the AC for a few days and saw this. Ryan my prayers are with you and your family. God Bless ya.

King Fisher
03-16-2005, 08:03 PM
Ryan- My nephew is struggling with the same stuff. He means so much to me and is my fishin buddy. I know this will grow you closer to your son. I will pray for all of you! You are a man of God and I know you will be OK. Give me a call anytime.

Peace
Rick

rimrock
03-17-2005, 10:08 AM
I will continue to pray for Daniel, you and your family. No trial is as difficult as that with a dearly loved child. I’m sorry for this struggle in your life.

God will be near. :angel:

Grantspastor
03-20-2005, 09:37 PM
I'll join in prayer Ryan

Ryan Pultz
03-21-2005, 12:39 PM
Thank you all so much for the prayers this week he is home with me on spring break working nights I know this will damper my sleep time but it is good to be able to spend the week with him. Once again thank you all for your prayers and good words. God Bless I will keep you all updated if more were to arise. Rp