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steelhead86
02-17-2005, 08:44 AM
My wife filed for divorce on our 19th wedding anniversary
back in Novemember. I just confirmed my suspicions last
night that she has been with another man. This man also
filed for divorce from his wife. I saved myself for my
wife and she has now taken everything that really matters
away from me. I am extremely concerned how her actions
will now affect the future of my children. Please pray
that my wife will truly find Jesus, pray for my Children:
Ashley, Shayla, and Tyler.
Thank You
Clay
CATCH AND EAT
02-17-2005, 08:50 AM
I am so sorry Clay. Love up your children in this time of trial. Sure will be praying for your situation. :depressed:
letsfish
02-17-2005, 09:07 AM
I will definitely be praying for you and the kids! Your wife needs a great deal of prayer also. For all your family I will pray!
Clay,
Put a whole lot of LOVEN on your Kids , I will pray for them and for you. Also will pray for your X that she finds Jesus.
DAB
jokester
02-17-2005, 06:10 PM
Clay,
I always hate to hear of these things happening :depressed: Do like the others said...give your kids all the love and affection that they desire through this whole process. Although this is a difficult time for all, stay close to God, hold onto his hand, and he'll bring you through this!! I'll be praying for you, your children, and for your wife!! :angel:
-jokester
Mikeymoto
02-17-2005, 10:58 PM
I went through the same thing back in 1989. Be there for your kids. You can't go wrong doing that. You never know if she will come back or not, but no matter what you feel, be strong and a good guide for your children.
I will pray for your family.
Be patient,
Mike
Grantspastor
02-18-2005, 08:33 AM
My heart goes out to you. I'll pray
steelhead86
02-18-2005, 06:36 PM
Thank You!
AnglersRental
02-19-2005, 08:16 PM
Prayer and PM sent. Here are couple simple prayers that got me thru some pretty tough times.
"God, thank you for all that you have given me, thank you for all that you have taken away, and thank you for everything that I have left. Amen"
"God, please bring one new person into my life each day that can help me deal with this crisis, Amen"
Brad.
pugetfishing
02-23-2005, 10:04 PM
Sorry Clay,
From a man who was married 20 years and had his wife leave for an internet buddy in Florida. I totally don't understand either. But let me say this. Keep your head up, I know it's sick and her timing was meant only to hurt you....so get even. Don't let it!!! Let me also say this, people always told me it was for the best. Clay just believe me it really is. I remarried about 1.5 years ago and this wife is twice what I had. As for your kids....listen to me....do not drag your wife down in front of you. They still love her no matter what they are feeling right now and will remember your remarks. Rise above it and be a good dad. I did and my kids (like all kids) grow up and understand where you were and how well you managed it and will respect you more. Remember we are the rock. My kids now talk badly about thier mother and even though I usually stop them, they do it because they know. The other thing is flings aren't really great and most likely...if your interested...your wife will come back. Mine tried. Anyways keep smiling and if I can help you PLEASE email me. Good luck and blessing for the kids. Ruben