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Cool Texan
02-03-2005, 06:13 PM
Found out today that my wife miscarried. She seems to be doing ok, though its hitting me pretty hard...perhaps because I look at my beautiful little girl, and I realize what we just lost. I thank God all the time for placing Ainsley in our lives, and I pray that he gives us comfort and support during this time, keeping my wife healthy so that we can try again when all is clear. I also pray that He accepts "Deuce" (nickname) into His kingdom.

You know its a bad day when Cool Tex has tears in his eyes and not a joke in his mouth. :depressed:

Armored Angler
02-03-2005, 06:33 PM
I am very sorry for your loss. When you get to heaven you can be sure you will meet your child, Deuce. He is now in the loving arms of our lord and will be forevermore.

STGRule
02-03-2005, 07:15 PM
Ohhh, I am so sorry. You two have made it this far, keep going. Hug your wife for me. And a hug for you too.

rimrock
02-03-2005, 07:31 PM
I am so sorry for your loss and will pray for you and your family. I would not presume to understand what grief you are going through. Remember something isn’t lost when you know where it is. Deuce is now in the arms of the Lord. I'm sure this doesn’t make things easier. I’m truly sorry.

Brad

letsfish
02-03-2005, 07:56 PM
Wow ... that kinda hit me hard. I can only imagine the hurt you and your wife feel. Please know I have prayed and will be praying for you.
Jim

Cool Texan
02-03-2005, 07:59 PM
Remember something isn’t lost when you know where it is.



Brad, you dont know how much that touched me. Cue the tears again.

Thank you for that kind reminder.

REEL TIME
02-03-2005, 09:27 PM
That is tough bro. i'll pray. been their, done that. twice. i do know what you and the wife are feeling. Just know that when you cry the lord crys with you. rest in his care.

D$_KFalls
02-03-2005, 09:46 PM
CT ... we haven't met other than through iFish, but I have had friends who have gone through the same thing, and I wish I could be there for you right now. I can't imagine the pain and grief you and your wife must be feeling.

I'll say a prayer for you, your wife, and "Deuce" right now.

fishnwHim
02-03-2005, 10:49 PM
My Thoughts and my prayers are with you and your wife tonight, my wife and I have two babies in Heaven. It is comforting, at least to know that they are with the Lord, it's the missed relationship that hurts so much. I am truly sorry for your loss. Dave. :angel: :angel:

jokester
02-04-2005, 12:05 AM
Sorry to hear that news Tex. :depressed: I'll be praying for comfort and peace to you and your wife! :angel:

-jokester

CATCH AND EAT
02-04-2005, 08:18 AM
Jeff, bro I am so sorry. Brought a tear to my eye also this morning when I read this. I know how excited you and J were about this child. I know how crushing it can be for the both of you as my wife and I have also been there done that twice. Surround yourself with God's love, hope and care and love up J as much as you can and then more. It is an important time to be supportive and practice sensitivity with her.

God bless you both and Ainsley too. Peace Bro. :depressed:

Cool Texan
02-04-2005, 11:35 AM
Thanks all. My wife seems to be doing pretty good today. We were up late last night talking about it all, and today is a new day. Its pretty sad, but apparently wasn't meant to be this time around. We'll wait till we have the green light again, and then just keep on trying for #2.

We appreciate the kind words, thoughts and prayers.

D$_KFalls
02-04-2005, 12:00 PM
CT:

Glad to hear things are better today. All the thoughts and prayers for your family's comfort must be helping!

Hope to see you posting funnies again soon. :angel: :smile:

DAB
02-04-2005, 04:52 PM
Cool Texan and Wife.
My heart crys for you and with you, may God comfort you and your wife in these sad times. Yes you will get to know Duce in heaven. Had to Grab a hankerchief after I read your post.
Here are some HUGS for you and your wife :bearhug: :bearhug: :bearhug: :bearhug: :bearhug: :bearhug: :bearhug: :bearhug:.
DAB

ampersat
02-04-2005, 07:07 PM
My deepest sympathies to you, CT. May the Lord give you and your wife strength and comfort.

Keeper
02-04-2005, 08:54 PM
I am so sorry.

I wish I could say something that would make it better; I bet all of us wish we could :depressed:

You are in my prayers.

Cool Texan
02-04-2005, 09:45 PM
Thanks all. Today is better than yesterday. We just want to officially move past this now (those of you who've been here know what I mean) so that we can focus on when we can start trying again.

:angel1:

greenbuttskunk
02-04-2005, 10:42 PM
Jeff my friend,
Meredith told me about this today. She must have got and email from you or Jeannie. I'm terribly sorry. I can say from experience we know the kind of pain you two are feeling. Having one beautiful child and loosing another is very difficult. Even when you consider it's possibly a child "not meant to be". Rationalization still does not take much sorrow away. Give each other lots of love and support, and hold that little girl even tighter. Be thankful for the blessings she's given you both.
Hang in there, and call or write anytime you need to talk about it.
:angel1:
We're thinking of you both,
Brad

feisty's wife
02-05-2005, 08:22 AM
CT, my heartfelt condolance's to you and your wife, been there, done that....your child is in a better place, there is alway's a reason.