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Tacklebuster
04-10-2002, 11:21 PM
I had a trip for springers lined up for Friday with a good buddy of mine. I got some news today that broke my plans and my heart. My mother in law has had some various health problems for the past few months. She needed a kidney transplant in order to survive. I was mentally and physically prepared to donate mine so she could live. It looked as if we were a match until more dreadful news came.

She was admitted into the hospital because she was having problems breathing and the doctors found cancer in her lungs. They said in order to do the transplant, her cancer would have to be in remission for 2 years. Her body was too weak for chemo so radiation was her only option.

After a month or so of radiation, it didn't seem to help. She was rushed to the hospital early this morning because she lost feeling in her legs. After an MRI, they found the cancer has made it's way into her brain. The doctors give her a couple days to a week to live. She is 49.

I will be leaving for Alaska tomorrow in hopes of getting my wife and daughter there in time. I know how it feels to lose a mother because I lost mine when she passed away of a heart attack at age 46. I know alot about fishing but little about easing the pain for my wife at her time of need.

Please keep us in your prayers. I will do my best to comfort her and hold things together as best as possible. It may be awhile before a few springers rise for the Tacklebuster but I wish everyone else on the river the best of luck. See ya on the river..........

Serious Fun
04-10-2002, 11:31 PM
Our deepest sympathies to you and your dear family. Life is about love and it sounds like your family has an abundance of it. Love each other, hold each other, don't feel like you have to always say something to break the silence. Just being together will help a lot. I am a Christian and have my beliefs about a life after death and know we will see our families again. Regardless of your faith, know that God loves you and you family. All things work for the good of those who love God and serve their fellow men. God Bless you and your family in this very trying time. We'll leave a few fish in the river with you name on them!
Serious Fun

ry
04-11-2002, 12:11 AM
Chris, my prayers go out to you and your family. Be strong for your wife and daughter - and have a safe trip up north.

First Bite
04-11-2002, 05:46 AM
Our deepest sympathies to you and your family. Our family lost a dear friend to cancer recently and it makes everything else in life seem trivial. Rejoice everything that was positive in her life and cherish the memories.

Mark

Cool Texan
04-11-2002, 07:12 AM
Tacklebuster....sorry to hear this news. My sympathy goes out to your family. Have a safe trip.

rags
04-11-2002, 07:36 AM
Tacklebuster,
My prayers go out to your family. Have a safe trip. There will be plenty of Springers waiting for your return.

CATCH AND EAT
04-11-2002, 07:56 AM
We're here for ya.

Silver Hilton
04-11-2002, 07:57 AM
I am very sorry to hear your news. Cancer is a tough opponent. Got my Dad, too. My best wishes to your family and you. Give your wife and daughter a hug.

Pilar
04-11-2002, 09:16 AM
Be strong Tacklebuster, that's what your family needs. Heartfelt condolences to you and your family.

SureSet
04-11-2002, 09:46 AM
Our family's thoughts and prayers are with you Chris.

SureSet

Bait O' Eggs
04-11-2002, 10:43 AM
Sorry to hear of your troubles. Have a safe trip.

Tacklebuster
04-11-2002, 03:12 PM
Thank you for the kind words and prayers. I will remember each and everyone of you in hopes I can meet you somewhere on the river to thank you again. We are getting things buttoned up for the trip up North. If they close the Columbia springer season before I return, someone bonk one for me.

It may be sometime before I can get my wife out on the water again but I hope I can get her out soon. I found it very theraputic for my soul when my Mom passed away. I hope she can find peace and closure somewhere away from the day to day grind that wears us all out. I found mine in prayer and out on the water just listening to my surroundings.

God Bless........

Fishalot
04-11-2002, 05:01 PM
Hi chris I know that these things seem to hit at the worst times, however the Lord helps us through and his time is not ours. I feel for you and your family ,I can relate because I just had a friend pass while he was waiting for a heart transplant. I used to hunt and fish with him, he was 20 or 30 years older then me. I never got to see him in the last few months before he went. You take care and I will see you on the river.

Fishalot/Dylan

Drachir
04-11-2002, 05:24 PM
I too know the feeling of losing parents too soon. My Dad died when I was 21, he was only 43, and my Mom died when I was 35, she was only 56. It is so sad when we lose parents when we are so young. I tell my wife to be closer to her parents, and she is trying. Life is never the same after our Parents are gone!!
God Bless You and your Family in this difficult time, we will pray for you. :hoboy:

TJB
04-11-2002, 07:04 PM
Just be there and be strong for your family. My condolences to you and yours.

FM2
04-12-2002, 12:39 AM
Our family's prayers will be with you and your family for your trip and for your mother in-law that she will not have to endure alot of pain.

My 19yr old niece was killed last week in a car accident and death is a difficult issue for anyone. Please have faith and focus on the good times as this can bring some relief. She will be missed but not forgotten.

May God Bless you and your family.

Steelheader
04-12-2002, 12:42 AM
My preyers are with you and your family even though I don't know you. The more preyers and good thoughts a person recieves the better. I to am going through some rough water. My wife was diagnosed with breast cancer last february, she is 36 years young. We thought we had it licked after she went through chemo and radiation last year but found out after getting a CT scan the tumor had matastisized and now she has two tumors in her left lung. It's really hard seeing anyone especially your lovedones going through such pain and hardship. You literally feel helpless. Take care.

Wannabe
04-12-2002, 06:33 AM
Every day is a mystery and a gift from above. May our Great Lord give you and yours strengh and healing during these rough times. In Jesus name.
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Seefood Man
04-12-2002, 06:35 AM
You & your's are in our prayers.

WaterDog
04-12-2002, 06:44 AM
Chris,

If you need anything, you know where to find me. Take care and have a safe trip.