Urgent prayer needed (update added)

[Ryan Pultz]

I just found out my brothers wife has stop taking her bi polar medication a few weeks ago. And has gone down hill ever since. She just had a baby two months ago my brother works hard all day love and they live with my grandparents in California. I am so troubled by this apparently she is screaming at everyone all the time she has got back to cutting and hurting herself to the point she stabbed herself with a ball point pen.

I dont know if many of you know my story but I have been in her place I have stabbed and cut my arms I have been to the point of suicide several times and even trying twice when I was younger but by the grace of God almighty I have been delivered of that. I have been praying about this all morning and I feel God is telling me to go down there to be there for my brother for a few days and if he opens the door talk with her. Not to be there to force the bible down her neck but to let her know she is not alone and that we have all been there. She will not talk to anyone on the phone so I feel the only way to do so is to go there.

So I guess I also ask for your prayer in God guidance on How to do this. We live paycheck to paycheck but if God Feels I need to be there he will open the doors. I cant take the time of of work but would not get payed thus not being able to pay the bills so I am asking you to pray for Gods hand in this situation maybe he just needs us all up here praying for her. Thank you os much I know I can count on my ifish Family to pray for me and that brings hope to my heart! rp

[Grantspastor]

I'll pray for her and for you Ryan

[FshnFool]

:pray::pray::pray: Mine and my familys prayers go out to you and your family.

Matt

[Fishalot]

That is diffidently a tough situation Ryan! I will be keeping this in my prayers friend.

Dylan

[Ryan Pultz]

thank you all I am continuing to work on the details but God is working thank you for your prayers I just really feel I need to be there for my brother and my family but do not want to neglect my Family here why doing so God bless thank you rp

[samiam]

Prayers for you and your family. You giving all credit to God is a blessing to read.

[DAB]

:pray::pray:

[Sweet Melissa]

Ryan,
If you believe you are being led by the Holy Spirit, don't hesitate to go. Everything else will work itself out.
I had a similar situation with a friend, but did not go because I let other people talk me out of it. I regret that now.
Praying that God will guide you and give you wisdom. :pray:

[brshooter]

I'll be praying for your family Ryan. :pray: :pray:

[SharkbaitHoHaHa]

Ryan and Daniel left at 6:30pm to goto California. We worked out as best as week could but I feel now that Ryan needs to be there for his Family. Daniel went with him because we had no one to take care of Daniel. I had no time to take off for work. Thank You all for praying. Keep praying for a safe trip there and back. Lord give Ryan the right words to say to his Brother and to talk with his sister n law. I am having a hard time dealing with this. I am not a good person dealing with this type of change in my daily schedule. I also need prayer that I can just feel taking care of by the Lord.

[Duckwheat]

I have been there and done that with my mother. This is the rest of your sister in laws life, a giant roller coaster.

Good luck with that. Set your goals realistically and keep the kids safe.

DW

[flyfisherwoman923]

many prayers and thoughts sent to all of you. :pray::pray:

[letsfish]

I will be praying for Ryan and Daniel and his family in California. I also will pray for you Joyce that you will be comforted till the boys come home.

[CATCH AND EAT]

:pray:

[jokester]

Praying for traveling mercies for RP and Daniel, and that God would give him the right words to say at the right time!

Joyce, i'll also be praying for you while they're away!

:pray: :pray: :pray:

-jokester

[Ryan Pultz]

awwshe misses me :flowered: than you all so much. rp

[SharkbaitHoHaHa]

Thank You for praying. My Sis is going to stay with me and I am going to stay with my parents for the weekend. I got to get back to doing stuff around here.

[Poindexter]

Prayers for you and your family, Ryan.

[CGRFish]

Praying :pray::pray:

[PapaHog]

Prayers said for you Ryan. May God use you in a mighty way to start this relative on the right track. Pray also for you and your son to return home safely.

[bassettmama]

:pray:s are with you and your family.

[illbynoeggs]

:pray::pray: My prayers are with you and your family.

[SharkbaitHoHaHa]

Ryan and Daniel will be here in a few hours. I need to get to picking up the house. I missed them both so much.

[Eagleclaw]

We'll keep you in our Prays Ryan... I hope all went well and you had a great visit with your brother...:pray::pray:

[Ryan Pultz]

Well I am home and it was a good trip I had a chance to speak with my brother and his wife and it is a rough situation for sure. My brother at this point needs to step up to the plate and force her to take her meds or put her in the hospital. I feel it was a good trip over all I got a chance to see mt Family and get things worked out and I hope my brother will listen to what I have to say and step up rp

[Ryan Pultz]

So this morning a day after I get back my brother called me and informed me they will be putting his wife in the mental hospital until she gets her medication regulated and can control herself this is for the safety of her and the rest of my Family she lives with. At least my brother has started to talk to me about whats going on and I am not left in the dark and can be in prayer for them if my trip did anything then it accomplished this. but I am still heart broken cause him and the new baby have to go through this and they are dragging my grandparents along with them so please keep praying for them as this keeps going on. thanks rp

[CATCH AND EAT]

Good move on his part. HOpefully she will recover and get back to normal as can possibly be with the meds.