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Steelheader69
07-18-2000, 10:33 PM
This is a reprint of a post I wrote on another BB. I thought maybe some of you might like to read this............

You know, the more I read the post on here and the more I just hear in general I wish I could go back to being a kid. I remember when all there was to fishing was grabbing the boat, tacklebox/vest, poles, a lunch and hitting the lake/river. Just relaxing and trying to catch fish, but more then anything was spending time with my Dad. I do my best to clean up after myself. I do more cleaning for others then anything. I'm finding that fishing has turned from more of a passion to more of a fight anymore. Lounging on the river has become a "gotta get the honey hole first". I decided a couple years ago that it was time to relook at my life and decide what mattered most to me. Fishing wasn't just CATCHING fish, but also enjoying the company you're with or just the outdoors. Alot of the complaints I hear are just, but it's becoming repetitive. As of right now, the best thing to do is do your best to be the best sportsman/woman you can be and set examples to all the rest. Instead of blowing up at someone, try to talk or just smile and say "have a nice day" and grin and bear it. It just has been bothering me hearing about sleds vs drifters, drifters vs bankers, etc etc etc. Why the hell can't we ALL get along and try to cooperate. Alienation of a group or name bashing isn't going to solve anything, just flare tempers more. I think that it's time we get together as a group of sportspeople, once we do that MAYBE we can take on bigger issues such as state/tribal, etc. I'm sorry for venting, just couldn't sleep and I've read enough posts lately that it was bugging me. I had my Dad give me his old trout rod and reel. An old eagle claw glass (w/metal ferrules) and old mitchell on it. Brought back alot of old wonderful memories and kinda made me smile, but made me sad too. I remember my first Steelhead on the Puyallup, but then wondered if my kids will ever catch one there of that quality. I remember floating by guys on the Kalama, Toutle, back in the early/mid 70's and saying "Hi" with smiles. Now you barely get a grunt from a stonecold face who's worried if you saw them hook a fish or not. I remember when people had favorite rivers they fished exclusively and rarely strayed. Now it seems most people hear a report then run to the river. Most of these guys spend their time anchoring in holes and spooking fish, thus ruining fishing for us all who know and love a river (NO, I'm not saying rivers are exclusive, but shouldn't be fished by report, but by pure want). I just worry that my kids won't have a passion for fishing like I do (eventhough they both do now) due to the fact that someone they encounter on a river/water is mean or spiteful to them (like so many more people are nowadays). What's worse is I do my best to teach my kids ethical practices on a river, but hard to enforce when my kids see others do things unethically. I have a picture I love of myself with my two kids holding a 15lb chum that I was about to release (due to C & R on the Nooch that year). Then, I had to try to explain why I released mine, while a driftboat up at the head of the hole was hooking them and conking them in their boat. I know the past will never come back, but I hope maybe someone will read this, and look back at their past. Maybe it may change their minds about how they do things, maybe they'll just think I'm an *******. If we'd all get back to basics maybe things could change for the better. My logic now is, I fish because it's something I love to do, if I catch something great, if not it's a good day on the water. I don't need first light, or first run on a slot. I can fish all day, and take my time doing it and just letting my kids enjoy their Dad as much as I enjoy them. Just food for thought, just had to get that off my chest while I couldn't sleep.

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NEUTRON
07-19-2000, 08:36 AM
SH69... great post. I still enjoy being
on the water at zero dark thirty. nothing
like being there when the sun is coming up
chasing summer steelies. A good book by
Bob Arnold "steelhead waters" captures some
of your feelings here. How many dead fish
pictures do you need? Again... good post and
thanks for sharing.

cts258
07-19-2000, 10:02 AM
great story I couldent agree more. Fishing is not all about catching the most fish. I enjoy fishing just to get out and relax. If I catch fish great if not it no loss I still got out and enjoyed myself although it is a lot of fun having my son catch fish. The only problem is he is getting competitive and that is what I dont want to happen I just want him to enjoy the outdoors the same as I do and how I enjoyed fishing with my father.
People do need to get out away from the hussel and bussel of everyday life and learn to relax that is why I enjoy fishing, just sit back and enjoy good old mother nature with no phones,pagers or anything to do with work. And even if I have a bad day fishing I never let it get me down its not worth it. when I say bad day fishing that means things go wrong like constant bird nests in my reel, getting snags on every cast other wise there is no bad day fishing.

Big Willie
07-19-2000, 10:34 AM
Great post Steelheader, I couldn't agree more. I think your feelings are well shared here. -Gary

Jennie@ifish
07-19-2000, 04:59 PM
I think, Steelheader, that that is what I want ifish to be all about.
If it becomes anything else, let me know, I quit!
Jen

scooby
07-19-2000, 07:48 PM
Steelheader69,

Great post, thanks for the reminder. I am guilty, at times, of forgetting from where it is that I came.

Fish4Fun
07-20-2000, 07:49 AM
Steelheader69,
I can relate to all of your post, as kids growing up in the late 60's and 70's fishing turned into being more of a job. It was always first to the holes to get THE SPOT By the mid to late 70's there were so many rude guy's that the fun of being out there was gone. We completely quit fishing and went off to Prof. Drag Race for 12 years. In 93 I had Duckworth build me a sled, fishing was now fun again. Last year I had Weldcraft build me an inboard sled, the name on the new boat is "Fish 4 Fun". We still catch more than our share of fish but now we do a lot of C&R. I don't have to bring a fish home every trip to make it a fun trip, the company on the boat can be enough now. I still notice the boats that have limits of all you can carry plus one and just chuckle, maybe someday they too will get the picture of what fishing for fun is all about.


Fish 4 Fun

Scarecrow
07-20-2000, 01:10 PM
Steelheader69, Thanks for putting into words some of the same thoughts thats been on my mind for the last several years. When we get too caught up in an activity and it becomes so all important that it ceases to be fun, it's time to stop. I fish for fun and enjoyment, of course catching is good too, but it's not everything. Thanks again for the timefull post.

Bob G.

Deleted User
07-22-2000, 08:32 PM
Thanks for your good insight and 'tude Jerry (ST69 - I guess this means it will be easier to beat you to the honey hole up on the Hoh next month! jk- I don't even know where the good holes are so I'll enjoy watching you hook some there). And thanks to you others too. This is a good thread to go hand in hand with the Competitive Fishing post thread. I know I have enjoyed fishing more in recent years with less of a premium put on "coming in 1st" at the boat ramp. The roots of rudeness started with the greatly increased numbers of people fishing thru the last couple of decades along with declining runs of fish to "compete" for. Now there is credible optimism for better ocean survival and fish runs for the foreseeable future. With better attitudes and etiquette education brought forth in media such as on fishing net BB's, mag's, and newspapers to go along with more fish to go around, I have strong hope of things returning to better times again. -- Hey Outlaw, since I don't compete hard during fishing any more, my competing is also some auto racing. Fun!! And also on the golf course, where the competition is on a fun level because of more realistic expectations now. - RT

mic4fish
07-23-2000, 12:42 AM
steelhead69
Thanks for your honest post. Really hit home with me about what fishing's all about. Just getting out and enjoying this great state of ours. We have gotten way to competative with our fishing. It seems to be all about numbers. I know that the local guys that I fish with are always wanting to know how many steelhead you've got, so they can try to get one up on ya. I know I get caught up in this too, but your post has been a real reality check. I really enjoyed taking my son out and watching him catch a steelhead or two. To me, that's fishin'. Just spending quality time with my son, and not worrying about trying to beat some knucklehead down to the hole.
Mike - yes, don't live without a cataraft.

Steelheader69
07-23-2000, 10:09 PM
Hey RT, don't worry, I'll just send you down to the honey hole before me, just tell you to go down the wrong slot to see how you handle that cat...HEHEHE....Just kidding. Don't worry, I'll be more "guiding" then fishing. I'm trying to get my girlfriend into her first steelhead. No biggie, we'll have fun either way. I just love the float, it's gorgeous and it beats the hell out of being couped up at home. Hopefully we'll have some water so it'll be enjoyable and not alot of dragging (which I doubt).

Jerry

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You haven't lived til you've rowed a cataraft. Friends don't let friends run Outcasts.